It’s been a long time since I share something on self care. Here’s a great article that’s been in one of my duckduckgo browser’s tab, screaming at me from time to time since the start of the covid-19 pandemic, how did I miss not […]
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Some Personal Take on NPD
I have been reading and gathering resources about narcissistic personality disorder and built reference links here for those who need help. At the same time, I would like to give some personal two cents about the topic. Right now, it can feel skewed to […]
To those who mourn 🙏🙏🙏
May those who have passed on rest in peaceMay those who live to mourn find solace in this quiet prayer Funeral Ikos by John Tavener Why these bitter words of the dying, o brethren,Which they utter as they go hence?I am parted from my […]
Learning Points from Recent Off-Balance
Wow, how do I even start? I was knocked off balance in the recent drama where some people began once more hurling emotional upheavals, angry uproars, toxic accusations and condemnations, etc. Well, this is of course not the first time. Just that, last year, […]
Happy Dragon Boat Festival
It is on the 5th Day of the 5th Lunar Month in Chinese calendar.Well, mainly, I want to share this poem, the reflection on the journey of life through the dumpling we ate during the festival. 人生如粽，不怕你有棱有角，就怕你肚里空空。 人生如粽，经得起热水沸腾，耐得住冷藏冰冻。 人生如粽，向糯米学会融合，向粽叶学会包容。 人生如粽，不捆绑就是一勺稀饭，不蒸煮哪有美味香浓。 祝端午安康顺心如意！ Life is like […]
Self-Study: Stop Feeling/Thinking Like A Victim
My journey has been pretty rough internally. Even though on the outside, it didn’t look as though I “deserve” or “should” be feeling/thinking like a victim, nor there “should” be any “reasons” or “excuses” to be feeling depressed or discontent in any way. So […]
